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1. What should I do to create my first database / program?

- Sun Microsystems has a little database engine called Derby which is good for learning SQL. Java EE 6 has Object Relational Mapping which lets you map Java classes to database tables. The Java EE 6 book is a good place to learn both but you have to start in chapter 1 by installing Java, Derby, Maven and Glassfish.
First things first - follow the instructions in chapter 1 and let me know if you need help.

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